People living in Europe – especially Western Europe – usually have a very poor opinion about my fellow Romanians, so I decided to try and tackle this delicate subject and try to explain why are Romanians frowned upon in Europe.
In the end, if there are so many countries who frown upon Romanians, they can’t ALL be crazy, right?
The truth is that they are not completely wrong, unfortunately – but the reality they know, the reality they are faced with on a daily basis is just part of the big picture.
Because “Rude Romanians,” “Romanian thieves” and “Romanian scum” are not words that should be used to describe all of us. There are good people and bad people everywhere.
I think that it all started with the “documentary” The Romanians Are Coming which enraged a lot of Romanians because they only showed part of the picture – the ugly part that most of Europe already knows and (which is not, by any means, untrue). It’s just not how things actually are as a whole in this country and among Romania’s population.
It showed the Romanian Gypsies, the beggars, the bad seeds, the black sheep… you get the picture. They took the worst that Romania has to offer in terms of people and made it a rule of thumb.
No, not all Romanians are beggars, not all of them are thieves or just rude, bad people!
Romania is one of the poorest countries in the EU and also one of the least educated countries in Europe.
This results in some strange individuals who consider petty crimes a way of living, who have no hopes for a better future and who are unfortunately living on a day by day basis, not even trying to figure out the bigger picture, not even trying to climb up the ladder and turn the odds into their favor.
Many of these people have already left our country and became parasites in Western countries – where there is more to earn, even from their petty crimes or begging.
And even though it is believed that most of them are actually gypsies (the darker skinned Romanians aka the Roma population), that is not the case. It’s not a racial thing at all.
They are still Romanian citizens and a product of this country. Because a country is the sum of its best and worst people.
It’s these people (the worst, the scum, not gypsies as a whole) who manage to paint a dark picture of the Romanians.
I am talking about beggars, thieves, people who consider petty thefts a way of living – the only possible way of living, liars and generally bad people.
We still have these bad people here in Romania too and I am sure that every country has more or fewer of these individuals… they just exist in our society, no matter if we like it or not.
It just happens that many of ours go abroad. They do stupid stuff. They don’t learn. They do it all over again. They’re the Romanians.
And as a result, most people living in those foreign countries believe that ALL Romanians are bad people.
And because of this, Romanians are frowned upon all over Europe. Which is sad and hopefully will change sooner rather than later.
I say this because there are many highly trained and skilled individuals working and living in European countries and all over the world that are not taken into equation.
I’m talking doctors, nurses, engineers and other skilled workers – but it’s not the good people that you hear about, it’s the bad ones. And this really hurts.
And unfortunately the bad Romanians are all over the place for the same reasons why our most skilled people leave the country: because Romania itself is so poor that any other country in Europe would do. For crime or for honest work – it’s just more money to be made, in the end.
But no, it’s not that all Romanians – not even most of them, not even a big part of them – are the petty thieves and bad seeds like others in Europe believe they are.
Yes, it is true: there are some bad people here. We are uneducated. We generally lack the means to get the lives we feel we deserve and the more you look on the streets, the fewer smiles you can see on the peoples’ faces…
But most Romanians are doing their best to improve their chances, to change something and make their lives better.
Most Romanians are still honest people, good people, hard working people that keep pushing and hoping for a better life.
They would not break the law, they would not do the stupid things that the “others” do, they would just live their life, like any other normal person on this planet.
Not by moving abroad and stealing other people’s possessions. Not by setting camp in parks and occupying derelict buildings – no, those are not all Romanians, those are just a minority. The scum.
I have nothing against people choosing to flee the country. I love to travel and I have considered moving away from Romania for various reasons (and I still do). Good people leave the country just as much as the bad ones do.
Romanians Are Good, Honest People
Living in Romania, I have interacted with a ton of extremely simple people who lived in shocking conditions, who had no running water and no means to own a TV or a fridge or to have EVER eaten at a restaurant.
I have a met a ton of different Romanians and even though some of them were the mischievous creatures Europeans think all Romanians are, most of them weren’t.
They were people whose hands were bleeding at the end of the day because they worked so hard – not to get rich, not to feel good, not because they were forced to, but because they wanted to survive.
Because they wanted a better life and that was the most they could do. They wanted more.
I’ve met an old lady who barely knew how to read because she hadn’t been sent to school – but she still took a newspaper or a silly book for children and spent hours trying to decipher the words there. She wanted more.
I’ve met families of six living in a studio looking at a grim future, and I was extremely impressed when I heard that one of them got a scholarship and went to college to become a doctor or something high brow like this.
I know Romanians who skip a meal or two just to be able to buy their son or daughter books and notebooks for the school. To feed them and send them to learn something, to live a better life than they did.
Some really want more. Some people really do all they can – without breaking the law – to live a decent life. And most, despite their efforts, still get nothing in return.
Others give up the fight. They try something stupid. The easier way out. Sometimes it works, most of the times it doesn’t. You don’t have to live in Ferentari to realize that life gave you one lemon (not even more!)
I lived a very modest life. I grew up in a family where my Grandmother started a business at around 70: she borrowed the equivalent of $50 to buy coffee and pots and started selling coffee to people.
The reason why she started doing this? She wanted to make enough to guarantee that we have enough money to buy bread daily.
Can you imagine this? A 70-year-old grandma waking up each day at 5AM to prepare coffee, just to make sure that she has enough to buy BREAD?
I was lucky to grow up with such a family. To learn this work ethic. To know how it feels to go to sleep on an empty stomach. (Although, truth be told, that rarely happened – but I am sure my parents and grandmother did it just so I won’t)
To see that you never give up and the only thing that stands in your way and success – however you want to measure it is yourself.
Not where you were born, not the deck of cards you were dealt with, nothing else. Bad people will do bad things no matter what.
I grew up surrounded by gypsies. Most of our neighbors were gypsies. Even the small kids were stealing, were swearing and didn’t go to school.
I didn’t follow the same route. Because not all human beings – and specifically not all Romanians are bad.
Not all Romanians are rude, bad people. We are frowned upon by fellow Europeans not because of what we are, but because of what some of us are.
And you know what? Despite all these, despite the fact that we all know that if we go in a Western European country and we admit that we’re Romanians (many have stopped doing so), we’ll be, most likely, frowned upon, we still go there.
We still get better jobs than we would get in Romania and we still manage to live a better life. Or at least some of us do – just like some of us don’t.
Because we want more. Because we’re not all bad.
Don’t rush to judge a person before you actually get to know them. I guarantee you’ll be surprised.
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